Where are all the aliens? Maybe they just don't want to talk to us
"What we call the 'Great Silence' may not reflect absence, but refusal."
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Back in 1961, astronomer Frank Drake put chalk to board and devised a formula to estimate the number of communicative civilizations in the Milky Way. Just how many alien societies exist and are detectable?
And there's also the paradoxical query asked a decade earlier by physicist Enrico Fermi. It seems like ET should be out there, given the vast amount of cosmic real estate. So, where is everybody?
Over the decades, researchers have been trying to come up with answers to these questions. The search for extraterrestrial intelligence (SETI) is a mix of technology, super-smart software and patience, along with creative thinking. For example, maybe the problem isn't us or our methods. Perhaps ET is a party pooper, refusing to join in on any interstellar discourse.
Article continues belowDeclining to speak?
In a new research paper, Erik Geslin notes that the Drake Equation asks how many civilizations beyond Earth might exist.
"My work asks whether they would actually want to speak with us," Geslin told Space.com. "What we call the 'Great Silence' may not reflect absence, but refusal."
In the view of Geslin, an associate professor of interactive media at Noroff University College in Norway, a civilization capable of interstellar travel may also be one that has moved beyond conquest, excess and ecological self-destruction.
Does that mean ET might be introverted as well, feeling no real urge to reach out to its cosmic neighbors?
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"Advanced extraterrestrials may not be shy, they may simply be prudent," Geslin said. "If extraterrestrial civilizations are biocentric or ecocentric, humanity may not yet appear to them as a safe partner for contact. Such civilizations might simply be cautious."
Planetary prudence
Other starfolk may understand very well the potential risks involved in interacting with humanity, a species that is still strongly anthropocentric, heavily resource-driven and often conflict-prone, according to Geslin.
"What we interpret as silence might therefore not reflect fear, but prudence! Perhaps even a kind of ethical restraint. In that sense, their behavior could resemble a principle of non-interference," he said.
But as for us Earthlings, we've been busy beavers, in terms of broadcasting signals into space and putting an ear to the cosmos in the hope of making contact. We have even planted messages to "the others" out there on outward-bound spacecraft, like NASA's Pioneer and Voyager probes.
"But sending friendly messages does not necessarily mean that we appear as a friendly civilization when viewed from the outside. An advanced society would likely take its time to observe us before considering any form of interaction," Geslin said. "They might study our communications, our media, our films, simulations, games and social networks, all of which reveal something about who we are."
Line of thinking
Geslin said that it doesn't take much effort to simply observe the state of our planet and the way our civilization interacts with its biosphere.
"From that perspective," he said, "our signals might reveal a species that is inventive and technologically creative, but also ecologically unstable and often destructive toward both its environment and its own members."
This line of thinking led Geslin to introduce a "contact-willingness factor" into the Drake framework.
"My work explores a different question: Even if they do exist, would they actually want to communicate with us?" he said. "My hypothesis is that the answer may depend not only on technological capability, but also on the cognitive, ethical and ecological maturity of those civilizations, and on our own."
Curiosity: a powerful force
That said, curiosity is a powerful force. Technological evolution is closely linked to creativity, exploration and the desire to understand the unknown.
"It is therefore possible that some civilizations might eventually decide that the potential benefits of contact outweigh the risks. Exploration always involves some degree of uncertainty," Geslin explained.
"Personally, however, I suspect that civilizations capable of sustaining themselves long enough to achieve interstellar travel may also have developed a very deep awareness of ecological balance and systemic fragility," he added. "If so, they might be extremely selective about whom they choose to engage with."
Geslin's paper, "Incorporating an exopsychological biocentric contact-willingness factor into the Drake Equation," will appear in the August issue of the journal Acta Astronautica. You can find it online here.
Geslin, Erik (2026). Incorporating an exopsychological biocentric contact-willingness factor into the Drake Equation. Acta Astronautica. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.actaastro.2026.03.030.

Leonard David is an award-winning space journalist who has been reporting on space activities for more than 50 years. Currently writing as Space.com's Space Insider Columnist among his other projects, Leonard has authored numerous books on space exploration, Mars missions and more, with his latest being "Moon Rush: The New Space Race" published in 2019 by National Geographic. He also wrote "Mars: Our Future on the Red Planet" released in 2016 by National Geographic. Leonard has served as a correspondent for SpaceNews, Scientific American and Aerospace America for the AIAA. He has received many awards, including the first Ordway Award for Sustained Excellence in Spaceflight History in 2015 at the AAS Wernher von Braun Memorial Symposium. You can find out Leonard's latest project at his website and on Twitter.
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